I have been to Japan twice so far, and coming from Europe there are many similarities in the lifestyle and ways of living that when used proved to be helpful in my trips to Japan to make it much more enjoyable. Here are a few to help you out on your first visit to Japan…
Master the Art of Bowing
- Greetings and Gratitude: Bowing is the customary way to greet people, express gratitude, and show respect. The depth and duration of the bow vary depending on the situation. Observe and learn!
- Apologies: A slight bow is also used to apologize for minor inconveniences, such as bumping into someone.
Respectful Interactions
- Quiet Voices: Speaking in a hushed tone, especially in public places like trains and restaurants, is considered polite. Avoid loud conversations and laughter.
- No Phone Calls on Public Transport: Refrain from making phone calls on trains and buses. Texting is generally acceptable.
- Personal Space: Maintain a comfortable distance from others, especially in crowded areas. Avoid physical contact with strangers.
Dining Etiquette
- Chopstick Manners: Don’t stick your chopsticks vertically into your rice bowl, as this resembles a funeral ritual. Rest them on the provided chopstick rest.
- Slurping Noodles: Slurping noodles, especially ramen and soba, is perfectly acceptable and even encouraged! It shows you’re enjoying the meal.
- Saying “Itadakimasu” and “Gochisousama Deshita”: Before eating, say “itadakimasu” (I humbly receive), and after finishing, say “gochisousama deshita” (thank you for the meal).
Cleanliness is Key
- Shoes Off: Remove your shoes before entering homes, temples, traditional restaurants, and some ryokans (traditional inns). Slippers are usually provided.
- Public Baths (Onsen): Wash thoroughly before entering the communal bath. Don’t let your towel touch the water.
- Trash Disposal: Japan has a strict recycling system. Dispose of your trash properly in the designated bins.
Transportation Tips
- Queuing: Form orderly lines when waiting for trains or buses. Don’t push or shove.
- Escalator Etiquette: Stand on the left side of the escalator in most cities (except Osaka, where it’s the right side).
- Train Manners: Avoid eating and drinking on local trains, especially during rush hour.
Dress Code
- Modest and Conservative: While casual wear is generally acceptable, avoid overly revealing clothing.
- Temple Attire: When visiting temples, dress respectfully. Cover your shoulders and knees.
Cash is King
- Many places, especially smaller shops and restaurants, prefer cash. Carry enough Japanese yen with you.
- ATMs: Convenience stores and post offices are good places to find ATMs that accept foreign cards.
Embrace the Culture
- Try new things: Be adventurous and try local delicacies, participate in cultural activities, and explore hidden gems.
- Learn basic Japanese phrases: Even a few simple phrases like “hello” (konnichiwa), “thank you” (arigato), and “excuse me” (sumimasen) will be greatly appreciated.
Some Additional Tips (might be similar to above)
Practice Good Manners
Politeness is highly valued in Japanese culture. Bowing slightly when greeting someone or thanking them is a common practice. Use polite language and gestures.
Remove Shoes Indoors
When entering homes, traditional inns (ryokan), or certain temples, always remove your shoes. Look for designated areas for shoe storage.
Be Quiet in Public Spaces
Keep your voice down in public transport, restaurants, and other public areas. Speaking softly is a sign of respect for others.
Follow Queue Etiquette
Always line up and wait your turn, whether at train stations, bus stops, or stores. Pushing ahead is considered rude.
Use Public Transport Respectfully
On trains and buses, avoid talking on the phone and keep conversations quiet. Offer your seat to those in need, such as the elderly or pregnant women.
Mind Your Eating Habits
Eating while walking is generally frowned upon. It’s best to eat in designated areas or at restaurants. When using chopsticks, avoid sticking them upright in rice, as this resembles a funeral custom.
Respect Local Customs at Temples and Shrines
When visiting shrines or temples, follow the local customs, such as washing your hands at the purification fountain and bowing before entering.
Be Aware of Tipping Practices
Tipping is not customary in Japan and can even be considered rude. Instead, show appreciation through polite words and gestures.
Use Both Hands When Giving or Receiving
When handing over items, such as business cards or gifts, use both hands as a sign of respect.
Avoid Public Displays of Affection
Public displays of affection, such as hugging or kissing, are generally not common in Japan. Keep physical interactions discreet.
Dispose of Trash Properly
Japan is known for its cleanliness. Carry your trash with you if there are no bins available, and be sure to separate recyclables when disposing of waste.
Participate in Local Customs
Engage in local traditions, such as participating in festivals or trying on a kimono, to immerse yourself in the culture while being respectful.
Be Patient and Understanding
If you encounter language barriers or cultural differences, remain patient and open-minded. A smile and a friendly attitude can help bridge gaps.
Photographing Geishas or Maikos
This is frowned upon. Do not photograph them unless given permission by them.